When life puts you in a bind — do you pick a side, or is there another way?
In this episode, I explore the power of Whole Mind Thinking — a way to hold tension without compromise. I share how I first encountered this mindset (think Star Wars, Jim Collins, and yoga), and how it finally became real for me through something I created: The Whole Mind Game.
Instead of reading an essay, I teach the game itself. We walk through real-world tensions like:
- Feed the Beast vs Boycott the Beast — Should I share my message through platforms I don’t ethically support?
We explore topics:
- How to move beyond black-and-white thinking
- Why not all tension is bad
- How to find the best of the best without giving up your values
I also introduce four types of tension:
- Constructive Tension — e.g. Quality vs Speed
- Emotional Paradox — e.g. Excitement vs Anxiety
- Moral Polarity — e.g. Selfish vs Selfless
- Delightful Dilemma — e.g. Beach vs Mountains
This episode is part story, part tool, and all heart. If you’re caught in a tension of your own, this one's for you.
See my conversation with The Whole Mind Coach for "Feed or Boycott" the Beast